When it goes off balance
When the 7 jams, two faces appear.
The first is immobility: days spent on the couch, projects announced then abandoned, sport put off until next Monday, other people’s opinions deciding for you. The second is the runaway race: a packed calendar, lunches swallowed in front of the screen, vacations cut short to answer emails, irritability as soon as anything resists. You want to do everything yourself because no one would do it well enough, you reprimand a coworker in front of the whole team, you decide for a spouse or a child what would be good for them. The goal matters more than the road, even if it means trampling someone. Delays pile up, files stay open, and victory leaves a bland taste. These drifts often follow a professional failure, a refused promotion, or a long period with no prospects.
