When it goes off balance
When the 3 goes off course, abundance turns into control.
You check the homework, the groceries, your spouse’s spending, each colleague’s work, and a task done differently from the way you would have done it is redone that same evening. The tone becomes curt, and orders replace requests. Money takes up too much room: people are judged by their cars, a partner or a job is chosen for the security it brings, and the smallest overdraft causes worry. Other sides appear: endless work that leaves no evening free, a house left in disorder, a neglected appearance, or, on the contrary, luxury purchases made to prove one’s worth. Tensions often concentrate on the women of the family: mother, sister, or daughter. These drifts usually follow a period when you could not practice your trade, be recognized, or feel useful.