When it goes off balance
When the 1 goes off balance, the momentum fizzles out.
You start a course, a blog, a vegetable garden, then everything stops after three weeks, and boxes of supplies pile up in the garage. Doubt sets in: you no longer dare speak up in meetings, you let a colleague present their idea, only to brood afterward over your place in the shadows. In others, the drift takes the opposite form: cutting people off, refusing any remark, flaring up as soon as a client questions a quote, keeping projects secret for fear of being copied. Cunning can replace talent: embellished promises, small liberties with the truth, collaborators used and then pushed aside. These drifts often appear after a public failure, a humiliating criticism, or a long stretch in a job with no room for initiative.
