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A clarification is useful: say what is blocking without detour, then look together for a rule that suits each of you.
Shi Ke, Biting Through, is the hexagram of the obstacle you cut through: a resistance to deal with frankly, and fairly.
For you, Shi Ke describes a knot to undo: name what is in the way, apply a clear rule, and decide without excess.
The frank decision that lifts a blockage, backed by clear rules and applied with discernment.
Applying the rule without nuance: firmness without measure turns a clarification into a test of strength.
Shi Ke describes a jaw biting through what lies in the way. The solid line in the fourth place blocks the mouth: the obstacle is like a foreign body that must be chewed through for the two lips to meet. Success is read in it, and the use of clear rules is judged useful.
The hexagram speaks of what prevents union: a misunderstanding, a fault, a habit. It invites you to deal with it without detour, but also to do so with fairness, in proportion to what is at stake.
The lines grade the degrees: from the small hindrance you lift in passing to the lasting obstruction, when you stubbornly refuse to listen.
Thunder joined with Fire: the crash and the light advance together. According to the commentaries, it is the figure of laws set down sharply and penalties announced clearly.
Throw three coins six times: your hexagram, the lines that change, and the direction they point to.
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A clarification is useful: say what is blocking without detour, then look together for a rule that suits each of you.
A blockage calls for a direct response: set the rules, settle a dispute, deal with what is dragging on.
The I Ching helps you reflect on how to act: it does not say what is coming.
The English names are the usual renderings of the Chinese characters; the texts rely on the Chinese and on early public-domain translations (Legge, 1882; Philastre, 1885–1893).
Hexagram 21, Shi Ke, means biting through: lifting an obstacle that separates two things, with frankness, clear rules, and a sense of measure.
It is hexagram 48, Jing, the Well. Shi Ke cuts through what blocks; Jing nourishes without moving. The first is an action, the second a resource.