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Program 16-8-6: Boasting

A gift for storytelling that captivates, and gains strength when the shine of words rests on real facts.

  • art of the story
  • shine
  • word kept
The essentials

Program 16-8-6: Boasting at a glance

A strength

A few sentences are enough for the room to listen: humor, rhythm, and a sense of the telling phrase make this person a born storyteller. They make you want to believe in projects, know how to sell an idea and set a mood. Combined with actions kept, this ease opens many doors.

Something to watch

Embellishing a little, then a little more: the gap between the story and reality grows without your noticing. The day someone checks, trust wavers. Get used to stating the fact before the hope, clearly distinguishing them. An honest story keeps all its charm.

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By Thomas Guilhot · updated

What this program carries

This program gives a real talent for storytelling: when the person tells a story, time flies.

Its strengths

They know how to persuade, find the words that win people over, and present themselves in company at their best. These assets serve them wherever speech matters: public speaking, negotiation, leading a group, or running a team they know how to motivate.

Where it can get stuck

The person tends to embellish the present and pass off their wishes as accomplished facts. They may keep a showy outfit meant to look more beautiful, richer, or more important, or buy a very expensive piece of clothing for a single evening and then take it back to the store. Most of the time, these embellishments harm no one. But when a commitment weighs heavily, sometimes even someone’s life, a broken promise costs trust. It then becomes painful to knock on the door of a coveted circle and be turned away because its members were let down.

What helps

Give up bragging and, once you have given your word, keep it. Before promising, honestly assess your strength, time, and means, and decline what you will not be able to carry through. When a favor depends on someone else, say so frankly instead of taking the credit. Keep in mind that trust is lost in an instant and rebuilt slowly. Let your achievements speak for you: winning admiration through results is far more rewarding than talking about projects.

In everyday life

At Sunday lunch, everyone asks about your work.

The story runs away with you: a contract almost signed, a boss who adores you. You notice a loved one’s attentive look and catch yourself with a smile: “Let’s say it’s on track.” The conversation becomes truer, and people finally ask you about what matters to you, not only about your feats.

A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.

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How is it calculated?

First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.

Frequently asked questions: program 16-8-6: Boasting

Does this program make me someone who lies?

No. A lively imagination and a taste for staging are qualities when they serve the pleasure of telling. The limit lies where the story replaces the facts others need in order to decide. An honest word about what remains to be done never spoils a good story, it makes it even more credible.

Where does this need to impress come from?

Often from a desire for recognition, born early: you learned that adults’ attention came with success. The program brings this need to light without ever condemning it. Seeking recognition through simple actions, a job well done, a favor rendered, offers more solid ground than exaggeration.

How can I talk about my successes without exaggerating?

Lean on three elements: a fact, a figure, a concrete effect. For example, say what you delivered, within what time frame, and what it changed for others. The story stays lively, and no one can contradict it, which reassures your listeners. Your storytelling talent gains credibility from it.