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Program 15-21-6: Excess of pleasures

An uncommon appetite for life, which becomes real richness when it learns to choose its pleasures instead of piling them up.

  • appetite for life
  • chosen pleasures
  • right measure
The essentials

Program 15-21-6: Excess of pleasures at a glance

A strength

Wherever they go, this person brings warmth: a generous table, laughter, charm, a taste for the beautiful and the good. They can turn almost nothing into a party and bring back the spirit of those around them. When they choose their pleasures instead of stringing them together, this energy also feeds their work, creativity, and love life.

Something to watch

What remains is the risk of always wanting more to fill a gap, a slight, a need to be recognized. Pleasure then becomes an escape, and the next day weighs. Notice what comes before your excesses and name it to someone you trust. When pleasure is no longer a choice, you can get help, without judgment: this page points to where to turn.

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The card 15
XV · The Devil
The card 21
XXI · The World
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By Thomas Guilhot · updated

What this program carries

This trio gives a powerful vitality that makes it possible to reach the heights in any field and to carry great projects.

Its strengths

The person has a big heart and a lavish gesture: all or nothing, in love as in gambling. They love passionately, give without counting, look at everyone without prejudice, believe in their ability to make a fortune, and accept risk. They enjoy life, their friends, their parties, and hold no grudge over the past.

Where it can get stuck

According to the method, the program is often activated after a wound to self-esteem suffered young, against a background of difficult childhood and lack of love or recognition. What remains is a doubt about one’s own worth and a need for approval that the person compensates for with money, appearance, or a facade of cheerfulness. They replace quality with quantity: superficial ties, partners who follow one another, leisure spending, missed opportunities. Gambling, alcohol, drugs, or no-strings adventures serve to calm stress and fill the void; the party begins in joy and ends in dejection.

What helps

Acknowledge that the unrestrained race for pleasures ends up damaging your health and your relationships. Decide to leave this way of life, and take the time to weigh the consequences of your actions before acting. Treat others with respect and attention. Learn to confide your feelings to a single person, in depth. Set yourself precise goals, accept the help offered to you, and thank life for what it gives you. Avoid the places and company that bring you back to excess. For childhood wounds or an addiction, seek the support of a psychologist or a specialist.

In everyday life

It is late, the evening was lovely, and you serve yourself a third time, or accept one last invitation even though the alarm will ring early.

The next day, you are annoyed with yourself. Set a simple rule instead: one pleasure fully savored, then a pause. Note what truly fulfilled you this week. Two or three chosen moments can be worth more than a series that leaves a taste of lack.

A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.

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How is it calculated?

First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.

Frequently asked questions: program 15-21-6: Excess of pleasures

Does this program condemn pleasures?

On the contrary: it recognizes a real capacity to enjoy life, and that is a gift. Only the quantity raises a question, when pleasure serves to numb a discomfort rather than to celebrate. A pleasure fully lived, with presence, leaves a gentle trace. A pleasure taken by reflex often leaves a void. The stakes, then, are quality.

How can I tell a pleasure from an escape?

Look at the aftermath. A pleasure leaves you nourished, relaxed, glad to think back on it. An escape leaves shame, fatigue, or the urge to take more right away. Look at the before too: are you looking for a moment of joy, or for a way to stop feeling something? This simple question, asked kindly, helps you adjust without depriving yourself.

What should I say to a loved one worried about my excesses?

First listen to what they observe, without defending yourself. Their worry is often a sign of attachment. You can agree together on a concrete marker: a number of evenings a week, a budget, a day of rest. If the subject remains painful, the presence of a neutral third party, a counselor or mediator, often eases the conversation.

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Illustrations: Nicolas Conver’s Tarot de Marseille, dated 1760, restored by Tarot World Project, CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons — images resized and compressed by Versana.