Program 11-6-22: The child used as a tool
A great power to persuade and a desire that does not back down, which flourishes once it stops using others to reach its goal.
- power of persuasion
- strong desire
- candor regained
Program 11-6-22: The child used as a tool at a glance
Confident in themselves, this person knows how to persuade. When they desire a project, a bond, or a success, they put all their heart and courage into it. They create, raise, bring ideas into being as much as projects, and rightly ask for fair recognition of their work. This energy is precious when it stays frank.
Desire can harden into strategy: holding someone back through a tie that keeps them from leaving, coveting a file only because others want it, bargaining what is precious in exchange for a favor. These maneuvers cost a great deal in trust, even in the family. Prefer a frank explanation, and get support from someone trained in listening if the urge to maneuver returns.
- The card 11
- XI · Strength
- The card 6
- VI · The Lovers
- The card 22
- 0 · The Fool
- The position
- Programs
By Thomas Guilhot · updated
What this program carries
This program gives the power to be obeyed and to bring others to do what one wants.
Its strengths
The person creates and gives life, to beings as well as to projects. They take pride in what they produce and expect fair reward for it. They can love or desire to the point of seeing no obstacle at all. They size up a situation to move toward the most favorable side, and believe strongly in themselves.
Where it can get stuck
To reach their goal, the person may stop at nothing, even using a child to hold on to their spouse. Transposed to possessions, the pattern becomes blackmail over what has value, over the fruit of their work. At the office, a project interests them only from the moment others covet it, and the battle begins. The outcome is rarely happy: according to the method, a child conceived to keep someone at home can bear the weight of it even in their health, and setbacks follow one another for the person and their loved ones. A maneuver at work can make them lose everything.
What helps
Do not try to get what you want through cunning. This shortcut seems convenient, but it is a trap that takes you a little farther from your happiness each time. Learn to appreciate what you already have and give up claiming what belongs to someone else. According to the method, deception drains your energy and draws a penalty; what you obtain then has nothing to do with what you were aiming for, and your condition deteriorates. Know how to recognize a defeat and let go of what does not belong to you.
In everyday life
A project means a lot to you, but a colleague seems better placed to get it.
The urge to maneuver crosses your mind: slipping in a word, holding back information. You stop. You ask your manager for a meeting instead and lay out what you would bring, in black and white, limits included. The answer is not guaranteed, but you leave the room with a free mind, owing nothing to anyone.
A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.
Go further
Strength
The card of energy 11The Lovers
The card of energy 6The Fool
The card of energy 22Program 11-3-19: Thwarted fertility
Another page of the same family that shares one of these energies
How is it calculated?
First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.
Fictional example, March 14, 1987: the finance line brings together points c1 = 10, x2 = 11, and x = 19. These three numbers form program 10-11-19, “Burnout, flare-up.” Order does not matter: 19, 10, and 11 would give the same one. The karmic tail is not part of this search; it has its own reading. In all, this date carries nine programs, including 17-22-5 for the talents of the paternal line and 20-3-10 for the maternal line.
Frequently asked questions: program 11-6-22: The child used as a tool
Does this name mean my child is at fault?
No, never. The child is not the subject of the program: the name speaks of the temptation to use a third party, a child, a loved one, a possession, to reach one’s ends. It describes a way the adult acts, not a reproach aimed at anyone, still less at a child, who remains free of this whole pattern.
Can you desire strongly without manipulating?
Yes, and that is the whole point: desire is not the issue, only the detour is. Desiring strongly means announcing what you want, proposing, negotiating in the open, accepting a refusal. Manipulating means hiding your intentions or applying pressure through a third party. The difference is felt quickly: after a frank approach, you sleep soundly. After a maneuver, a doubt sets in.
How can I accept losing without falling apart?
A refusal takes nothing from your worth. Take some time to welcome the disappointment, then list what you already have and what this experience teaches you. This habit of acknowledging a defeat without bitterness frees up a lot of energy. It can then turn toward another project that truly belongs to you.
Programs: the 22 energies
- Program
Program 9-6-15: Fairy-tale world, writer
An imagination that invents whole worlds and flourishes when it finds a language, a form, and an audience to share them with. - Program
Program 9-20-11: Disappearance of the lineage
The feeling of being the last link of a worn-out family, and the strength to become the one who picks up the thread. - Program
Program 15-21-6: Excess of pleasures
An uncommon appetite for life, which becomes real richness when it learns to choose its pleasures instead of piling them up. - Program
Program 17-5-6: Beauty
A natural radiance, of face or heart, that touches others and grows when the person puts it at the service of a project. - Program
Program 18-11-11: Fear of accepting one’s strength
Rare abilities, of intuition, influence, or energy, that the person downplays for fear of what they would have to own. - Program
Program 22-22-8: Prison
A spirit in love with freedom that, when it withdraws, locks itself in, and that finds air again by daring to ask for help. - Program
Program 22-4-9: Lack of freedom
A need for living space that is smothered when too many rules are set, and that breathes as soon as the load is shared. - Program
Program 22-4-8: Lack of freedom in the face of the system
In the face of rigid frameworks, a thirst for air that finds its way by refusing commitments that bind too tightly.
Illustrations: Nicolas Conver’s Tarot de Marseille, dated 1760, restored by Tarot World Project, CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons — images resized and compressed by Versana.