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Program 10-20-10: Mimicry

A gift for observation that learns by drawing on those who succeed, and finds its real strength when imitation helps you become yourself.

  • keen observation
  • chosen inspiration
  • personal style
The essentials

Program 10-20-10: Mimicry at a glance

A strength

In a new environment, you quickly pick up the gestures, tone, and codes of those who succeed and adjust without friction. This power of observation eases learning, helps you find your place, and can serve the stage: comedy, impressions, voice acting, any performing trade where slipping into a role is a pleasure.

Something to watch

By dint of copying, you can lose sight of your own tastes: adopting the style, opinions, or spending of those you admire, aiming at the look of success more than success itself. Get in the habit of noting what you truly like and asking whether a choice comes from you or from a model.

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By Thomas Guilhot · updated

What this program carries

According to the method, the person who carries it takes their cue from the look and conduct of people who succeed.

Its strengths

Taken literally, this inclination sometimes leads to the stage: comedy, parody, impersonation, or any other performing work. One can see in it a great capacity for observation and adjustment, which helps find a place in a new environment.

Where it can get stuck

Nothing in the sources gathered describes the downsides of this program: they are only guessed from its title and the method’s short definition. The risk is that imitation takes over from personality: adopting the style, opinions, or lifestyle of those who succeed to the point of losing sight of one’s own tastes, or aiming for the appearance of success rather than success itself.

What helps

These suggestions follow from the program’s name. Use imitation as a learning stage: observe a person who succeeds, spot the precise quality that works for them, then ask yourself how to express it your own way. Write down your own tastes and opinions from time to time, without comparing yourself. If acting appeals to you, try theater, improv, or voice-over: that is the most direct version of this program.

In everyday life

Within a few months, you buy the car, the watch, and the vacations of colleagues who impress you, then notice that the budget has melted away without your life being any happier.

Take an evening to draw up two lists: what you admire in them, and what you really like, you. Then keep the quality that inspires you, such as their ease in public, and let the rest go.

A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.

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How is it calculated?

First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.

Frequently asked questions: program 10-20-10: Mimicry

Is imitating others always a flaw?

No, it is a natural way to learn. Children, artists, and craftspeople all begin by copying. The trap appears when imitation replaces the search for your own voice. Spot the precise quality of a model, such as their way of listening or organizing, then ask yourself how to translate it in your own way.

How can I rediscover my personal tastes?

For a month, note what pleases you without anyone knowing: a dish, a piece of music, a way of spending Sunday. When a choice comes up, ask what would attract you with no outside gaze. Little by little, a list takes shape: that is your style, to cultivate and to own.

Does this program predispose you to performing careers?

It can point toward theater, improv, voice acting, or any performing work, because it gives the wish to observe and slip into another skin. It commits you to nothing: a trial class is enough to see if the pleasure is there. Many mostly gain an ease in communication, useful in any profession.

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Illustrations: Nicolas Conver’s Tarot de Marseille, dated 1760, restored by Tarot World Project, CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons — images resized and compressed by Versana.