Karmic tail 15-5-8: Betrayal, passions in the family

In this life

Nothing signals it in advance: the person is upright, kind to everyone, and loves their partner with all their heart. Then, one day, something shifts in their head and their view of the relationship changes all at once, generally in youth or around the age of forty. A doubt arises about the person chosen, and the desire is born to find better. One idea takes hold: staying in a stable relationship would mean missing the finest story of their life and the great love. A period then opens of hurried, almost feverish changes of partner. In the second version, the person crosses paths, with striking regularity, with partners who carry the same inclinations as those of their past life. They themselves lead a calm, healthy life, but they attract gamblers and drug users; even someone who did not drink starts drinking over the course of the relationship.

The lesson

According to the method, both versions resolve in the same way: through unconditional love and acceptance of the partner, even at the price of effort. For the first, it is a matter of recognizing that the most precious person is already there and learning to gauge what one feels. For the second, it is better to give up the fight, with no imposed rehab and no threat of leaving, to let go and to sincerely cherish the other person’s qualities. Everything then changes: either the other person gives up their habits, or they move away and make room for a happy relationship.

In this scenario, either they trample those values themselves, or the people around them act in opposition to them.

The signals

• Infidelity or betrayal by the partner
• Absent family values
• Falling into a dependency
• Betrayals suffered personally
• Temptation to cheat to get what you want
• Excessively sharp judgments
• Urge to lecture and run the family
• Seeing people and events in black and white
• Staged suffering, reproaches toward loved ones
• Expectations always disappointed
• People who let you down
• Misfortunes felt as absolute injustice
• Refusal to forgive
• Agreements not honored
• Honesty displayed to create an illusion
• The idea that anything goes
• Criminal matters
• Laws repeatedly broken

If the temptation to look for something better returns, you remind yourself that the dearest person is already there, and you pay attention to what they feel. If the partner is caught in a dependency, you stop fighting it: no imposed rehab, no ultimatum. You let go for a time and attach yourself sincerely to their qualities. According to the method, the situation then transforms, through the partner changing or through their departure, which opens the way to a harmonious relationship.

The steps

• When doubt arises, name what your partner already brings you
• Ask your partner what they feel and take it into account
• Give up ultimatums and imposed rehab when facing a dependency
• Write down your partner’s qualities each week
• Accept your partner as they are for a set period