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Program 7-6-17: Parallel love

A generous life energy that catches fire for several passions at once and seeks to choose those that truly nourish it.

  • multiple passions
  • open heart
  • choices owned
The essentials

Program 7-6-17: Parallel love at a glance

A strength

Curious about everything, this person throws themselves joyfully into new activities, encounters, and ideas. Their enthusiasm is contagious and their heart wide, able to love several causes at once. People call on them to lead, connect, and motivate. This abundance of drive, well directed, enriches those around them as much as their own life.

Something to watch

When everything attracts, nothing is truly explored in depth: hobbies pile up, commitments overlap, and a close tie can feel less of a priority. Sort things out once a season: keep what makes you vibrate, let go of the rest without guilt. Tell your loved ones clearly what place they hold, to avoid misunderstandings.

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The card 17
XVII · The Star
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By Thomas Guilhot · updated

What this program carries

This program gives abundant vital energy.

Its strengths

Passionate, the person is interested in several fields at once and knows how to bring them together, even giving rise to new creative currents. They want to get everything out of life, give themselves the means to do so, and enjoy passing on what they have learned. Contrary to what the name suggests, they are also capable of building relationships that last a very long time.

Where it can get stuck

Passions multiply, for hobbies as well as for people, and attachment comes quickly. In a group, the person hesitates for a long time, not knowing what or whom to choose, and fears letting go. Two attractions often coexist: mainly in love, sometimes in the form of a second activity. In a couple, they maintain, consciously or not, a bond with someone other than their partner, without necessarily any physical infidelity. According to the method, this sets off a chain of events in which the partner ends up cheating, to the point that another family, with children, is sometimes discovered.

What helps

According to the method, the way is not to give up one of the two attractions but to acknowledge both and look for how to bring them into harmony, in love as in your activities. Gather your interests into a shared project rather than scattering yourself. If this story has already led your partner to have children outside the home, do not play down this fact or ignore it, even when the wound is raw: welcome these children and share time with them. Each evening, compare in writing your intentions of the morning with your actions of the day, until the two match.

In everyday life

Your week overflows: an evening class, a club, a new project, friends to see.

On Friday, you realize you have not spent a quiet evening with the person who shares your days. You cancel an appointment, cook, and talk at length, phones off. This small choice reminds you that picking one priority leaves the rest time to grow.

A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.

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How is it calculated?

First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.

Frequently asked questions: program 7-6-17: Parallel love

Does parallel love mean infidelity?

No. The name evokes several interests and attachments moving side by side: activities, causes, friendships, sometimes one more love. Nothing is written in advance about what each person chooses to do with them, or how to live them. Fidelity and passion can coexist as long as commitments are stated and owned with honesty.

How do I avoid scattering myself among my passions?

Prioritize: choose two or three priorities for the season and give them fixed slots in your calendar. The rest becomes a bonus, not an obligation. After each week, note what gave you joy: the sorting then happens on its own, through pleasure rather than guilt.

My partner feels neglected: what can I do?

Acknowledge the feeling without justifying yourself. Offer reserved moments, with no screens or other activity, and keep them regularly. Invite your partner to share one of your passions too: closeness often replaces rivalry. If dialogue stalls, couple mediation can help you find common ground again.

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Illustrations: Nicolas Conver’s Tarot de Marseille, dated 1760, restored by Tarot World Project, CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons — images resized and compressed by Versana.