Program 17-20-3: Secret love
An intimate attachment you do not dare show, which becomes a creative strength as soon as it is acknowledged and shared.
- hidden desire
- creative sensitivity
- owning your tastes
Program 17-20-3: Secret love at a glance
A fine eye for beauty, a delicate understanding of people, a creative mind: these are this person’s assets. When they dare to name what moves them, this secret desire can become a collection, a work, a career. Their openness inspires, because it allows others to own their tastes.
Lying to yourself is the trap: denying a taste, a desire, a love that family or milieu would find strange. As soon as the subject comes near, you get defensive. In a couple, unspoken feelings or a double life breed distrust. Write down what you truly want, then talk about it with one trusted person.
- The card 17
- XVII · The Star
- The card 20
- XX · Judgement
- The card 3
- III · The Empress
- The position
- Programs
By Thomas Guilhot · updated
What this program carries
This program gives a fine understanding of women and men alike and great sensitivity.
Its strengths
The person perceives beauty delicately and thinks creatively. When they allow themselves to recognize their deep desires, they can turn a secret attachment into a work, a collection, a new activity, or a business, reveal hidden talents, inspire others through their own openness, and thereby gain recognition and success.
Where it can get stuck
The heart of the program is an attachment one does not dare to admit, because it clashes with what the family or social circle expects: a talent, an original idea, an unusual passion, a hidden love. The person sometimes lies to themselves and denies what they really want; as soon as the subject surfaces, they defend against it. They may, for example, work for one brand and secretly prefer a competitor’s, without telling anyone. In a couple, unspoken feelings, a third party who is never mentioned, even a parallel affair, can set in distrust and a double life.
What helps
Write down what you really want, even if it seems strange. Give this desire a visible form: a collection kept to yourself can become an exhibition, a passion a creative project or an activity. Start by talking about it with one person only, then with your partner. For a woman, the method advises professions geared toward women, inventing something new in them, and kindness toward them; for a man, gentleness, without harshness toward other men or toward a son, and creating for men what is still missing. Do not scold a child for their tastes.
In everyday life
For years, you have secretly collected objects you love and that your circle would find frivolous.
One evening, you take them out of the closet and arrange them on a shelf. You wonder what people will say. You mention it to a friend, who is immediately interested. A few weeks later, you put on a small exhibition at home, and several guests share their own passion.
A symbolic reading of the Destiny Matrix: food for thought about yourself, never a verdict or an established fact.
Go further
The Star
The card of energy 17Judgement
The card of energy 20The Empress
The card of energy 3
How is it calculated?
First calculate all the points of the matrix, then look at each line of three points.
Fictional example, March 14, 1987: the finance line brings together points c1 = 10, x2 = 11, and x = 19. These three numbers form program 10-11-19, “Burnout, flare-up.” Order does not matter: 19, 10, and 11 would give the same one. The karmic tail is not part of this search; it has its own reading. In all, this date carries nine programs, including 17-22-5 for the talents of the paternal line and 20-3-10 for the maternal line.
Frequently asked questions: program 17-20-3: Secret love
Does this trio necessarily speak of a hidden love?
Not always in the romantic sense. It can be a talent, an original idea, an unusual passion, a dream career, or a simple taste. The common thread is what is kept quiet for fear of those around you, sometimes for a long time. When this secret concerns a partner, it deserves to be shared with frankness and tenderness.
How can I say what I love without fearing judgment?
Start by writing it down, then tell one kind person. Give this passion a visible form, even a modest one: a page, a shelf, a weekly activity. Little by little, other people’s opinion counts for less than the joy you draw from it. Most loved ones react better than feared.
What if my child’s tastes surprise the family?
Welcome them without mockery or reproach, even if they baffle you. A child whose tastes are respected learns to be themselves, and this freedom will serve them all their life. Show interest, ask questions, offer to join them in their activity. The views of those around often change when parents set the example.
Programs: the 22 energies
- Program
Program 9-20-11: Disappearance of the lineage
The feeling of being the last link of a worn-out family, and the strength to become the one who picks up the thread. - Program
Program 17-5-6: Beauty
A natural radiance, of face or heart, that touches others and grows when the person puts it at the service of a project. - Program
Program 20-3-10: Betrayed trust, motherhood
A tempered character that learns to place its trust with discernment, and to experience passing on life without inherited fear. - Program
Program 13-7-20: Danger on the road, in decisions
A foresight that protects loved ones and, well dosed, finally allows leaving, changing jobs, or moving to another city. - Program
Program 11-3-19: Thwarted fertility
A generous energy that sows everywhere and learns to harvest for itself, by carrying its actions through to a result. - Program
Program 9-8-17: Hidden truth
A gap between the image given and the reality lived, which closes by confiding your truth to someone safe. - Program
Program 17-22-5: Academic knowledge
Solid knowledge, built on sure foundations, that gains in value when the person dares to test it against what is new. - Program
Program 5-17-12: Public shame
A talent that asks to be seen and that fear of others’ eyes holds back, until the person accepts being imperfect and shows up.
Illustrations: Nicolas Conver’s Tarot de Marseille, dated 1760, restored by Tarot World Project, CC BY-SA 4.0 license, via Wikimedia Commons — images resized and compressed by Versana.