Strengths and watch points, in six dynamics
Dialogue, emotions, attraction, values, daily life, the long term: for each, a strength and a watch point, with no score.
Dialogue
Strength Both speak little but accurately: a word given counts as a commitment, and each knows the other will keep it.
Watch point Silence serves as a shared refuge; a discomfort left unspoken on both sides can settle in for a long time without anyone raising it.
Emotions
Strength The same way of reassuring themselves, through presence and gestures, creates an emotional security that is rarely questioned.
Watch point This sign holds a grudge well; two tenacious memories can bring up an old reproach at the slightest tension.
Attraction
Strength The pleasure of the senses, the beauty of a place, a good wine shared: Venus gives the pair a common sensual ground.
Watch point The routine of comfort ends up lulling desire to sleep; an unusual date awakens what habit had covered over.
Values
Strength Work, savings, fidelity, transmission: on what truly matters, the two understand each other almost without having to argue.
Watch point The taste for owning can slide toward comparison, or toward money management too tight to let them live.
Everyday rhythm
Strength Schedules, meals, and upkeep of the home quickly find their rhythm; there is little friction over practical organization.
Watch point Two resistances to change add up: a piece of furniture to move or a vacation somewhere else sometimes becomes a real topic of discussion.
The long term
Strength The bond feeds on what accumulates: memories, projects seen through, trust tested over the seasons.
Watch point What wears the bond down is stillness: without a new project from time to time, habit takes the place of momentum.