Strengths and watch points, in six dynamics
Dialogue, emotions, attraction, values, daily life, the long term: for each, a strength and a watch point, with no score.
Dialogue
Strength Exchanges are fluid, courteous, nuanced; each knows how to rephrase the other’s thought without betraying it.
Watch point By seeking consensus, the conversation goes around the real subjects instead of taking them up frankly.
Emotions
Strength A great mutual delicacy: each quickly senses the other’s discomfort and tries to dispel it.
Watch point Annoyance suppressed to keep the peace ends up coming out as coldness or small digs.
Attraction
Strength Charm works through care, elegance, and attentions; a double Venus makes seduction refined and playful.
Watch point The desire to please, turned outward, can awaken a jealousy that no one dares put clearly into words.
Values
Strength Justice, beauty, respect for others: the pair agrees on what gives life its sweetness and dignity.
Watch point Concern for appearances can take precedence over real needs when important choices come up.
Everyday rhythm
Strength A tidy interior, guests well received, cultural weekends: daily life has style and sweetness.
Watch point Thankless tasks, paperwork, or the leaking faucet can stay pending a long time for lack of a volunteer.
The long term
Strength The relationship strengthens when each dares say no without fearing to lose the other; frankness consolidates.
Watch point Compromises piled up without discussion end up weighing; a regular check-in prevents hidden resentment.