Strengths and watch points, in six dynamics
Dialogue, emotions, attraction, values, daily life, the long term: for each, a strength and a watch point, with no score.
Dialogue
Strength The exchanges are frank and equal: each says what they think without detour, and the other accepts it without taking offense.
Watch point Two fixed convictions can clash endlessly; yielding on one point is not the same as betraying your principles.
Emotions
Strength The pair gives each person time to digest their emotions without pressure, with respect and discretion.
Watch point Too much discretion becomes silence: sorrows go unspoken, and the other’s reserve is mistaken for indifference.
Attraction
Strength Desire is born of intellectual admiration and surprise: a bold idea, an unexpected initiative.
Watch point Sensuality can come after projects; without attention to the body and to tenderness, the flame weakens.
Values
Strength Equality, freedom, a sense of the collective: two Aquarius share the same idea of the world to be built.
Watch point Great causes can come before the couple; one more activist weekend sometimes weighs on intimacy.
Everyday rhythm
Strength The home is original, open to visitors, organized by rules invented together rather than by custom.
Watch point Housework bores both; a written division of tasks keeps the mess from becoming a subject of discord.
The long term
Strength The relationship is enriched by successive projects and shared causes, which renew mutual admiration over the years.
Watch point Emotional distance, if it sets in, wears down the bond in silence; a few regular gestures of tenderness prevent it.