Challenge number 3: the meaning
A difference of three units gives it: for example, being born on a 7th, 16th, or 25th of April, or having a day reduced to 5 against a year reduced to 2.
Challenge 3 is about communication and creativity: how you bring out what lives inside you.
It is lived on two sides. On one side, restraint: ideas kept to yourself, a sketchbook nobody sees, an opinion given once the discussion is over. On the other, scattering: lots of words, projects, and enthusiasm, but little finished. In both cases, the heart of the matter is the same: fear of judgment on what you produce, which pushes you either to show nothing or to never finish anything.
When it holds first position, it often marks school and adolescence: speaking up in class is costly, or, on the contrary, chatter masks discomfort. Past 50, as a second challenge, it returns as a creative urge long put off, a book, a workshop, an instrument, that finally asks for room. As a main challenge, it makes expression a thread through your whole life: finding your voice, and using it.
Talent is not in question. What you work on is the permission to show an imperfect work and the discipline of giving it a finished form.