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Dreaming of a wedding: meaning

Dreaming of a wedding speaks of a commitment or a passage: a union with someone, with a project, or with a part of yourself.

  • Commitment
  • Union
  • Passage

What this dream brings up for you

  1. Who was getting married, and to whom?
  2. Did you feel joy, doubt, or constraint?
  3. Which commitment in your life does this wedding bring to mind?

What it can mean

A wedding marks a passage: you promise, you unite, you change status. In a dream, it speaks less of a ceremony than of a commitment, to a person, a project, a role, or to a side of yourself you are reconciling. It can also express a desire for stability, a fear of binding yourself, or the weight of the expectations of those around you.

To read it, look at who was getting married and what you felt. A joyful wedding evokes an accepted union; lived in doubt or constraint, a commitment that weighs. Seeing someone else get married speaks of what this passage makes you feel: envy, support, or distance.

Depending on what happens

Seeing yourself getting married says a commitment under way, with someone, a project, or yourself. The emotion decides: joy, doubt, or constraint show how you receive this union.

The church adds solemnity to the scene, a shared setting, sometimes family. It raises the question of the place you give to rites, promises, and what is larger than you.

The dress crystallizes the image one wants to project on a big day. It speaks of expectations, of how others see you, and of the wish to do things well.

Attending another person’s union says how you receive this passage: shared joy, envy, distance. The person getting married often stands for a bond, or a facet of you.

Depending on what you felt

Fearing the wedding points to the fear of committing or of losing your freedom, even in an area unrelated to a couple.

A wedding that makes you sad evokes the memory of a bond, a promise, or a role behind you.

Getting irritated at a ceremony shows an imposed commitment or outside expectations that weigh: what is being asked of you?

A joyful wedding says an accepted union, whether it concerns a bond, a project, or a reconciliation with yourself.

A wedding lived peacefully evokes a serene commitment, made without haste or constraint.

If this dream comes back

If the wedding returns, note who is getting married, your mood, and the commitment that occupies you in your days. The pattern often follows a decision, a bond, or a project awaiting your answer.

Write it in my journal

One small stepWrite down what or whom you were saying yes to in the dream, then the commitment this reminds you of.

A dream is read as a mirror of what you are living, never as an omen: no reading here predicts anything at all.

Read according to Freud, Jung, and research

Freud gives the wedding no imposed meaning: he asks which memories, desires, or family expectations the scene awakens in the person. That is where the disguised fulfillment of a wish would come from.

Source: Sigmund Freud, The Interpretation of Dreams (Die Traumdeutung), 1900, ch. II and III; Encyclopedia.com, “Dream Symbolism”

Dreaming of a wedding: your questions

Does dreaming of getting married announce a wedding?

No. A dream does not predict a ceremony, and even those who marry later do so for other reasons. Dreaming of getting married speaks of commitment in the broad sense: a bond, a project, a part of yourself. Your emotion decides.

What does it mean to dream of your own wedding?

Seeing yourself getting married evokes a commitment, not necessarily a romantic one. Joy, doubt, or constraint show the way you receive it. Note whom you were marrying and what this person or figure represents for you.

Why does Artemidorus link marriage and the end of life?

Because he saw in them two turning points of life with similar ceremonies: procession, crowns, perfumes. Each, for him, points to the other. This ancient reading says nothing about your dream: it only recalls that both are passages.

What does the Muslim tradition say about a wedding in a dream?

There, a wedding stands both for divine providence and, on the other hand, for confinement or debts, according to al-Akili (1992). The tradition thus keeps two faces; reported without a verdict, it leaves first place to your feelings.

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