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Dreaming of death: meaning and symbolism

Dreaming about death speaks of an ending or a passage: a period, a role, or a bond that is transforming in your life.

  • Ending
  • Passage
  • Separation
The essentials

Dreaming of death at a glance

For you, what matters is seeing what is ending right now, and the room this ending leaves for something else.

A question to ask yourself

Which page of your life is turning, willingly or not?

Something to watch

Dreaming of someone’s death announces no death: this very common dream speaks of attachment, worry, or change.

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What this dream brings up for you

  1. Who was dying in the dream: a loved one, a stranger, a figure from the past?
  2. What did you feel: dread, grief, indifference, relief?
  3. What are you going through right now with this person or around them?

What it can mean

Death is probably the most frightening image in the vocabulary of dreams, and yet the dream often calls on it to speak of something else: the end of a period, a change of role, a separation, a page turning. More than one student in two, in Nielsen’s survey, had already dreamed of the death of someone who was in fact alive.

When a close person dies, the dream often speaks of the place they hold, the fear of losing them, or a change in your relationship: a child growing up, a parent aging, a bond drifting apart. Freud observed, moreover, that the dream readily replaces death with a journey or a train ride. These images of departure show well what the scene is about: a passage.

Depending on what happens

Seeing someone you love die often speaks of attachment and the fear of loss, especially when that bond is changing: distance, conflict, a new stage. The dream shows how much this person matters to you.

This dream often goes with a change of place in the family: you are taking on responsibilities, moving away, or watching your parents age. It speaks of the bond, not of how long it lasts.

A lifeless body, often unknown, stands for what is over and waiting to be left behind: a habit, a project, an old image of yourself.

Depending on what you felt

Dread expresses attachment: the fear of losing a person, a place, or a security that is dear to you.

The grief in the dream may accompany a real separation, or a change you experience as a loss.

Anger at this dreamed death often points to an ending imposed on you that you did not choose.

A surprising relief carries no guilt: it usually speaks of a burdensome situation you would like to leave.

A dreamed death lived without panic often shows an ending that has been accepted, and the passage it makes possible.

If this dream comes back

If the same death keeps coming back in dreams, note who disappears, what changes between you, and what is ending in your life: the thread is often quick to see.

Write it in my journal

One small stepName one thing that is ending for you, then one thing that is beginning.

If you are going through grief or worry

If you are grieving, or if you fear for someone close, this dream can revive a very real sorrow or fear. It tells you nothing about what comes next. You have the right to talk about it, with someone dear to you or with someone whose job is to listen. When anxiety or grief become too heavy, you can call the helplines above.

A dream is read as a mirror of what you are living, never as an omen: no reading here predicts anything at all.

Read according to Freud, Jung, and research

Freud tied the dream of a loved one’s death, lived with grief, to very old feelings born in childhood, and refused to see a present wish in it: nothing there says you wish this person harm today. Only your associations, not a rule, shed light on the scene.

Source: Sigmund Freud, The Interpretation of Dreams (Die Traumdeutung), 1900, ch. II and III; Encyclopedia.com, “Dream Symbolism”

Dreaming of death: your questions

Is dreaming of a loved one’s death a bad omen?

No. No dream announces a death, and this one is very common: more than half of the people Nielsen surveyed had already had it. It most often speaks of attachment, the fear of losing someone, or a change in the bond. If it worries you, a call or a moment spent with this person often comforts more than an interpretation.

What does dreaming about death mean?

Most often, a dreamed death stands for an ending: a period, a role, a relationship in its old form. Artemidorus already likened it to marriage, as a turning point in life. The precise meaning depends on who was dying, the scene, and what you felt: start from those three clues.

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