In love
Attraction is born of contrast: the Horse fascinates with its freedom and frankness, the Rat with its presence of mind and discretion.
Over time, the differences in rhythm weigh: one wants to go out, travel, improvise, the other wants to plan and secure. Reproaches then fly, on one side about feeling smothered, on the other about inconsistency. Agreeing to meet halfway, for example an unplanned weekend and a carefully prepared one, gives each the share of air or landmarks they need.