In love
Attraction plays on contrast: the Rooster admires the Rabbit’s elegance, the Rabbit the Rooster’s uprightness.
In intimacy, the Rooster says what they think, sometimes unfiltered, and the Rabbit takes it in without answering. Reproaches pile up on both sides. The Rooster does well to start with what is going well before bringing up what is not, and the Rabbit to say “that hurt me” rather than withdrawing. Carefully made moments, a prepared dinner, a neatly organized trip, please them both.